January 23 2009 started out as a normal day for me. I took care of my baby, probably took a shit or two. Just a normal day, that is until I checked my “MYSPACE” email … and it was all fucking HILARIOUS from there. Go on, read and get a good laugh. I warn you its long.
From: Beauty Is Her Name
Date: Jan 23, 2009 11:18 PMHi, i know i’m a complete stranger, and i’m in know way trying to disrespect u or bring any kinda of drama into ur life, u can feel free to respond to this message or not. but I’m talkin to this dude that i know u used to talk to James and we been together for a while and he’s just completely being a dick.
I don’t know if i’m crazy or anything for writing this letter but i was just wondering is it me or did u have this experience with him and his crazy attitude too?
Now it being such a normal day meant I was bored. Usually I wouldn’t entertain such kinds of questions because of the fact that the internet is shady. You dont know what peoples true intentions are. However, some reason I was feeling devilish and nosy as all hell. I wanted to know what was going down.. especially since my ex boyfriend James was a classic example of an asshole. Think of a black teenage Scott Disick with no money and that’s James. Just full of himself, and slightly abusive towards females. However he’s a punk when it comes to other males .. I’ll let the convo speak for itself.
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Me: Hi,I dont mind you asking me anything .. but first I gotta make sure you are who you say you are hun. Add me and we can talk some more .. btw how did you get my page?
Her: he showed it to me he would just show me some of the girls that he used to talk to, but… i don’t even know where to start but. He’s just actin like a real asshole lol idk if u had the same experience
Me: HAHAH! Seems like he has me on his mind more then I ever had him on mine … asides from one stupid ass pic of us on facebook.
Let me tell you how this dude is.
First off he was the one who contacted me after seeing my pic through a friend or online or something. I was 15 (im about to be 21 soon). He told me he was 15 too. Turns out he was 14 but I didn’t know that until the end of our 6 month or so relationship. I found that out from my NEXT dude who went to school with him. I dont know why he wanted to lie about one damn year.
Even at that age he had control issues. I wanted a little tattoo but he told me I couldn’t get it. I ended up getting it after I dumped him.
He would lie on me to his friends at school. One day he came to school with a fucked up haircut and said that I did it. I dont even cut hair!
Lets not even talk about his mother…smh.
Then the most dumb mistake ever was when I brought him a boost phone ( I was young and dumb) … he got MAD because it wasn’t the one he wanted so I kept the one I originally brought him and got him a “better” one. If I could go back in time and slap myself I would.
… there is lots more … anything specific you want to know about him?
Her: wow….what about his mother please tell me because he seems to be not too fond of the whole family life situation. I didn’t realize that ya’ll were talking so long ago damn, but damn he definetly does have the whole control issue thing that is starting to drive me insane. so how did u guys finally cut it off? That’s crazy though i’m startin to realize that he’s a fucked up individual with some real issues…
We cut it off on a sunday I believe. We took a trip to the park (pelham pkwy) and he was playing basketball when some dude started talking about my titties and he did NOTHING. He pissed me off so bad I had my homeboy walk me home and I told him to fuck off after that. Not only does he have control issues, he’s a pussy too.
and i noticed that he had his little issues but i didn’t talk to him that long so i didn’t know to what extent of an asshole that he was. but then i ran into him this summer and he seemed like he changed he took me out with no problem but now it’s bad, i mean he’s older now so he doesn’t have to sneak on the phone or anything like that but i think he’s the one that’s disrespectful to them…..
and i definitely agree with the pussy thing because one time we went out last summer and when we were getting off the train some guy on the train says to him “Yo your girlfriend likes me” lmao he didn’t say anything at all he just looked all dumbfounded and he was mad the rest of the way home he could hardly say anything, lol he claims that if he releases his anger he’ll end up doing something crazy. YEA RIGHT!!! He’s just a punk.
Lol i would love to hear more horrible stories about him because that would just make me feel way better about leaving him alone
He paid for you? Maybe he has a little bit of money now, because back then I was the one footing the bill for everything. Ihop, the movies, a damn subway sandwich, whatever it was I was paying for it because I wanted it and he never had shit.
Oh, and I do remember him talking about his anger problems .. but NO, when it comes to other dudes anger has nothing to do with it, he’s just a straight up pussy. He has all the classic traits of an abuser and that’s why I had to leave him.
Let me not even go into the time this dude almost throws a fit at the 42nd street movies because I didn’t want to see what he wanted to see … fuck that. I paid for the shit.
Oh and we can also talk about mr “no condom” .. he dont like condoms. I had sex with him maybe 3 or so times and he told me that we shouldn’t use condoms. I had to literally beat his ass into one.
Don’t get me wrong he’s still a cheap bastard besides for paying for little shit like something to eat he pretty much only looks out for himself i realized just how much of a selfish bastard he was this past Christmas he didn’t have a present for me because i told him mines was going to be late mind you at the time i was just coming home from school and i wasn’t working so i didn’t have any money to spend. But at the times his ass was working so he had money to spend he was just being a real dick head. And it got me really mad because he’s the type of dude that buys himself all kinds of expensive shit. Weeks before that he was asking me to buy him a pair of expensive ass shades, or a play station 3. I’m thinking this boy is out his mind if he think my broke ass gonna be spending that much money on him. he wanted that from me but he didn’t even have a damn present for me wtf
He used to ask me for all kinds of expensive shit too, but never want to give me a damn thing. Im still in shock that he never grew out of that. Honey, stay away from him and if he ask you why tell him “because alyson said so bitch” He’ll get the picture.
PS. dont be ashamed about the std, its your job now to let other females know what kind of dirty ass nigga they are dealing with. Be grateful it was something that went away with a shot.
REGARDLESS OF HOW WELL YOU KNOW HIM, UNTIL YOU TAKE THAT TEST WITH HIM WRAP IT UP!!!!!!!!!!
ps.James Henry, you are a nasty abusive fucktard. I hope your pencil dick falls off, and someones brother fucks you ALL the way up for messing with his sister. Bitch ass.
wow that crazy. i had a ex that would always ask me to buy him things but yet he never spend money on me. so i never brought him anything. he use to claim that once i buy him gift(expense gift at that) then he would do they same. i didn’t have time to waste to see if he was bullshitting or not. i just let him go w/ other reason too tho.
males are funny and
like that i guess, punk asses
hmmm, i wonder if she stop messing with dude.